Things on the homefront have been pretty bad again lately and I find myself sometimes wondering what my future is going to hold. However hubby and I had a refreshing purge/vent/scream/cry session last night that resulted in two very important decisions. We love each other. We don't want to tear our family apart. We have agreed to seek a marriage counselor to try and learn how to reconnect. We both agree that we have lost a lot of our relationship in the process of trying to raise a family. There is nothing more important to me than giving my children a functional family. If we can find our way back to one another, I am willing to do whatever it takes. I know there will always be problems and there are certain areas of our life in which we are completely incompatible....but we need to at least try our damndest....
It felt good to clear the air. I still have fears and doubts. But I feel like we have at least taken one step forward.
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3 comments:
Thats great! I was a little worried but i think as long as you both are willing to try things will work out for the best. Love you girl!
So glad you are happy about the direction you are moving. Good luck with the counselor. Sometimes the impartial third person listening and helping makes all the difference.
I've had friends who have gone through counseling and say it has helped 100 fold! I wish you well. Just remember to be honest with yourself, your husband and the counselor and things will work out in the end! They have to! You two are in love with each other and your family as a unit!
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